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How long does it take?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by LoveMarshmallow, Sep 30, 2015.

  1. LoveMarshmallow

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    In my last thread I told you that I told one of my best friends that I like her and she rejected me. Now she wants distance but for how long?
    I mean, someday she'll talk to me again, won't she? Do you have experience with situations like this? Please, tell me how long it could take:slight_smile:
     
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    Mine hasn't spoken to me more than 4 words since February then again I thought we were friends maybe not
     
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    My buddy pretty much stayed away from me for about 9 or 10 months. We saw each other some but only because of other friends and it was awkward every time. But now we're back friends again. I wouldn't say it's like it was by no means but at least I have him back in my life.
    Be strong I know it's hard but it will get better. And hopefully in time your friend will come back to you.
     
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    Well that really depends on the person.
    But from my experience, good friends come back.

    When I told my friend, she reacted a bit strange, overstrained and wanted a bit of distance too. But as far as I recall it took just some months to get back to normal.

    But I've also been on the other side. A friend told me that he had a crush on me and that was too much for me. I tried to keep everything as it was before his confession, but somehow I needed some distance too, with less contact. But also after some months everything went back to normal.

    I hope for you, that I'll take also just a few months in your case! I wish you all the best! :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank y'all for your answers. I guess I have to wait some time. That will be hard :/