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think someone's flirting with me but im not out

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by TheAnon32, Sep 30, 2015.

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  1. TheAnon32

    TheAnon32
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    Sexual Orientation:
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    Sometimes I think a guy would be flirting with me and they kind of fit the 'gay stereotype' and I am interested but I'm not out. It always ends up with me just kind of smiling and blushing while carrying on a conversation while I know that they are gay in my head but I'm not sure if they know that I am gay. I don't even know where to go from there after. Any advice? (mind that I live in a very homophobic country)
     
    #1 TheAnon32, Sep 30, 2015
  2. TheAnon32

    TheAnon32
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    anyone?
     
    #2 TheAnon32, Oct 4, 2015
  3. iamdesperate

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    Well i have absolutely the same situation and i dont know what to do either, soo... i cant really help you with that sonce i cant even help myself out. May be we should give signs or just come out to them but these all need courage.
     
    #3 iamdesperate, Oct 5, 2015
  4. confusedbubble

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    Are they out? If they are maybe you could step up the flirting a bit and see how they react.
    If its positive then keep going if not take a step back and don't put yourself at risk.
    Maybe you've pinged their "gaydar" some people are good at sensing the vibe and know before you tell them
     
    #4 confusedbubble, Oct 5, 2015
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