I have a crush on a girl and I really like her. I have been flirting with her and all. But when it comes down to actually considering a relationship with her, I don't know if I want to. Same with anyone I like. I just don't understand myself anymore. I get that I'm probably severely asexual, but it's going to hurt her so bad if she likes me too, because I have been flirting with her and everything.
I guess the question to ask yourself is why do you flirt with her if you don't want a relationship? If you feel like she likes you back and you don't want a relationship, then you owe it to her to be honest. This doesn't make you a bad person. I think being asexual can actually be harder than just being gay. Just own who you are! No new for shame. ((Hugs))) I hope that was helpful in someway.
