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Is It Ok To Ask My Best Friend If He Is Bi

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by tacos, Oct 14, 2015.

  1. tacos

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    is it alright to ask because he is very close and personal with me and i think he might be bi but i want to ask him to make sure because i want to ask him out but i want to make sure first so is it alright to ask and if so how should i
     
  2. SemiCharmedLife

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    I wouldn't. If he isn't (or is but is in denial/doesn't want to be out), you run the risk of making him angry and jeopardizing your friendship.

    I'd start by coming out to him if you haven't already. That lets him know you're into guys.

    If you want to know which way he swings, be subtle. Ask about attractive people in your class, hot celebrities, LGBT issues, porn preferences, and stuff like that. See what he says. But whatever you do, don't push too hard.

    Hope this helped.