We have been friend for a long time and i have had feelings for him for 2-3 years now but never said any thing (also he doesn't know i am gay) but until this year i thought he was straight but now he sends mixed signals like: 1. He has started to say i love you 2. he talks about how supportive he is of LGTB 3. He alway trys to be close to me 4. he sticks his butt and crotch in my face and laughs 5. When people say that they thought we were together he laughs akwardly 6. He sits on my lap or will lay his legs across me 7. he cuddles with me 8. has dared me to kiss him 9. he looks up to me if that has anything to do with it 10. he grabs my butt and grunt sexually 11. he is always interested in how i feel 12. started being very open with me 13. will make gay jokes 14 tickles me and gives long hugs 15 he says i am hot and sexy When he says or does things like this it makes me confused do you think he might be gay or even like me and what shold i do to find out?
Ah, that's so cute!!! From the things you said, it sounds like he really does like you. He is the only one who knows 100%, but those things he does sounds a little more than friendly. Is he like that with everyone or just you? If it's just you, then.. It sounds a lot like he likes you!!! You should probably try coming out to him?
Well if you are truly good friends and you know 100% that you can trust him then come out to him and see where it leads from there. If in the event he's not 100% truthsworthy and he's just straight, you might want to be more cautious. Try to ask him insinuating questions to find out if he's gay, start with lighthearted questions and then eventually tell him that you'll be his best friend no matter what and you're always there for him no matter what. At this point in the conversation he'll correct you by stating whether's he straight or gay. If he's straight it might be a little awkward but you should find a way to laugh it off and move on to the question. If he's gay, well that's up to you...
UPDATE: I told him and he said i knew it and we havent brought it up since and it has been 4 days now which i am cool with and so know he knows yay!!!
