I can't seem to help getting crushes on older girls. One's 24, one's 25, and one I only know online-she lives on a completely different continent, and is nearly 30! (I'm 19, btw.) What does it mean? Why can't I just like people my own age? This is frustrating. :help:
It could be a maturity thing. Physically... girls around that age start to look more like women, if that makes sense. Women are sexy
My first female crush (before I even knew I liked girls and thought I was just weird) was on a woman at least 10-15 years older than me. And one of my hardest crushes was on a woman 20+ years older than me. I've been crushing on women closer to my age now, still a few years older than me but I think it's just coincidence. To be honest I think part of me was still struggling a bit with my sexuality, so the crushing on older straight women was 'safe' because they were unobtainable. But who knows haha (That's just me)
