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This girl, omg...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Nero360, Nov 17, 2015.

  1. Nero360

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    This girl at my school she is so hot i really like her. She's in everyone of my classes. When we get a break from work i let her use my phone so she can snapchat. She makes a school snap everyday lol. But i think she has gotten really spoiled with my phone. She would literally say things that would make me give her the phone. if you let me use your phone, i let you hug me. if you let me use your phone i'll let you b in my snap. do me a solid and pls let me use your phone. etc. i like really like her. Yesterday she said lol you cute. No really and your like the only boy here who keeps your eyebrows on fleek I just fall for that kind of stuff. Anything i can do to avoid this? like srsly my battery is on 60%. after she uses it its at 15% like wtf. Also anything you guys can think of for me to get her number? I am really falling for her. IDK why? something about her makes me feel straight or something.
     
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    She is using you. You are using her. If you want her number, just let her use your phone... :wink: But seriously, you should ask yourself if she would treat you differently if you didn't have a phone. Do you like her as a person or for her looks?
     
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    OMG RLY////*huge facepalm*////I never thought of that...////I see her as both.
     
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    Sorry! Wrong thread LOL
     
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    Yeah, she might be using you... So be careful...

    Try intentionally "forgetting" your phone at home, and see if she still wants to talk to and hang out with you.

    ---------- Post added 19th Nov 2015 at 02:57 PM ----------

    Also, being attracted to her doesn't make you straight - it makes you STILL BI or PAN.
    Being attracted to the opposite sex is totally part of the bi and pan experience - its just that you also like cis-guys and/or trans folks (assuming that you actually do, as your profile suggests.)
     
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    Yeah she's just about the same as ever when I dont bring my phone. Still nice and friendly.

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    Also, I said it makes me feel straight because it was like the first interest I had in a girl lol. I usually think about the guys I'm crushing on but she makes me forget all about them.
     
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    ^ I agree with this.

    You may want to leave your phone at home for a week, so that you can see how she responds. If she begins treating you differently, then that's an obvious sign that she isn't really interested in you as an person/friend.

    You are definitely using each other though. That's the truth :slight_smile: