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Text or Call?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by questions4ever, Nov 18, 2015.

  1. questions4ever

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    So I'm planning on asking this girl out on a date. We've been friends for a while, but not sure whether she likes me in that way. I'm tired of not saying anything as I'm not a very forward person. But for once in my life I want to be hold and not regret this decision. So I'm gonna go for it and ask her on a date. So my question is call or text? I don't go to school with her so I won't get a chance to ask in person.
     
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    I would call, if you couldn't do it in person.
     
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    i would text. that way she has a little time to think about it. calling kind of puts people on the spot.
     
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    Do you call or text with her more?
     
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    Text her mostly :slight_smile:
     
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    I would text personally as it's not as 'on the spot' as a phone call.
    But then again it depends on what you're used to doing.
     
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    I always preferred the most personable channel of communication - face to face. If you can't do that, I would say - call her! It's scarier, but I personally think it's a much better option.

    Good luck with that, you can do it!

    Mila