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Mental health or need to be sober

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Tryatleast1ce, Nov 25, 2015.

  1. Tryatleast1ce

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    Hey all, I have a question. I smoke cannibas almost every second day and sometimes after work. And I have a question about gay/straight world's when you're under the influence. I'm out to most of anyone who has seen me in a while or who has me on social media. I hang out with people from my work and theyre ALL gay and I love bing around them and when I smoke I turn into a zombie around them but my anxeity isn't that bad, but when I'm around straight friends I feel the worst anxerity and one of my straight guy friends has told me it looks like I'm acting when I'm high, he is a pretty close friend I've hung around respect and trust him. Which to me sounded strang . And I am feeling a little upset about it, I have some underlining mental health issues and they might be it.. But I feel like its more around my straight friends I have to be a little bit more aware than when I'm around my queer friends. When I drink its always the same, around people. I'm always sooo friendly and I love everyone and I come out more easier letting people know I'm pansexual and in some cases I say I'm a lesbian or gay, especially men when they try to hit on me and go further than me just being a human in the room and not a piece of meat. I'm pan but I do prefer to be with women.

    I've always gotten so much great advice from you guys and I'd appreciate the feed back and maybe if you can also relate.
     
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    Yeah, I kind of have a similar thing, but it's a bit of a different situation. I generally get kind of uncomfortable around people other than close friends/family while high though. It isn't just because of anything sexuality related though. I think weed has a way of bringing out that kind of paranoid thought process.
     
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    I guess I'm on the opposite end then because my normal state is shy and awkward. At least when I smoke, it tends to curb some of my anxieties.