Bisexual wants to start a lesbian family????

Oh yeah. I want a wife. I have kids but I'd be rapt to find a wife who wanted kids of her own.
And yes, I don't want to be the one wearing the wedding dress. I have never pictured myself in a dress, I've only ever thought of myself in a suit. I want to go shopping for a wedding dress for my future wife.

We're in pretty well the same place except I've ended the relationship with my co-habiting male (even if he hasn't) and I'm now identifying as lesbian.

 

I get what you mean. I was in a relationship with my ex-bf for almost 15 years but due to some complicated circumstances we never lived together and tell you truth I'd never wanted that. I'd never wanted to marry him either because the idea of having a husband makes me rather uncomfortable. After I realized my attraction to women things started to make sense to me and I understood it's a wife I desire, not a husband.
I may be wrong but feeling how you feel about the couple dynamics it may be difficult for you to get what you want from a man, especially longterm. Moreover it's a woman who you picture to be happy with and it says a lot, I think. (*hug*)

 

I am bi, yet I have absolutely NO doubt over the fact that I do NOT want to get married to a man. I always said (and thought) that I never wanted to get married until I realized that I was bi and liked women and now realize that I DO want the wedding and the family and all of this, but I want all of this to happen with another woman.

For the past couple of months I have really tried to imagine my future and tried to picture myself in a couple of years (because bisexuality can be and is extremely confusing) but all I can manage to picture is me raising children with another woman. I try to imagine myself with a husband and so on but it just seem so wrong (so unhappy too !) so if you are weird I am weird too since I totally get where you are coming from and have the exact same thoughts-process.

 

That seems pretty normal for a lesbian or bi woman to me from waht I can tell.

 

Well, to be honest, I have no idea who I see myself with in the end. I thought it would always be with a man even though I have never been with one. I would love to adopt kids because I cant really get pregnant because of medical issues. but I am pansexual and I believe that I will be happy with whomever I am with whether a man or a woman or trans etc.