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Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by bookreader, Dec 2, 2015.

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    This is probably my first time talking about a crush on here. Anyways, his name is Jackson and he has amazing blue eyes, short sandy blonde hair, and cute glasses. He's really smart with computers. We have PE together and sometimes we walk and talk and there's like a bond that I never had with another guy before. During these talks, we talk about personal stuff and it's like he can trust me. We're about the same height. He jokingly calls himself fat, but he's not. Found out that he's Bi, so that I started jumping all over the place at home. He's a really great guy friend.
     
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    Go for it. :wink:
     
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    Get him now while supplies last, once you've established a strong relationship of course.
     
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    Today, he had put his arms around me and said, "He's my babe.", jokingly. his friends were like, "I ship it." and laughed. That was a funny moment. Best moment of my day.
     
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    Go for it!!! Be happy and enjoy! My dear first had brown eyes and blonde hair. Best of wishes to you!
     
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    So jealous! :wink: Strike while the iron's hot, and get 'em before he's gone! :grin:
     
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    Thanks guys. He wasn't here today so I miss him.
     
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    If he can joke about being with you in a loving manner it might mean he's slightly interested in you as well.
    Try and build up courage to tell him early on! It's nothing bad with it.
     
    #8 Riz, Dec 4, 2015
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    I know it's not bad but, I'm just scared that he won't like me back. And I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship. And I feel like he knows that I like him.
     
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    "I'm just scared he won't like me back" are you crazy?! Have we already forgotten the "He's my babe" quote?

    You both obviously want to test the waters at the very least. Make the first move, and he'll likely say yes. Stay passive, and he might move on, I've seen and experienced it before, and it's not a happy picture. ;_; Be brave, be honest, and it'll go fine. Even if he declines, don't let it create a rift between you two. It would really suck to see such a beautiful friendship be affected by such a minor infraction, so try to stay friends at the very least. My first admirer and I drifted apart after I didn't take the hints, and get the courage to ask him out (I was still closeted at the time), and now I can't even look his way without feeling shameful. :frowning2:

    Now I'm jealous of you. :wink:
     
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    Yeah, I have to make the first move. Here's my plan: When we're alone, I'll ask him if there's anyone cute at this school. If he says yes, I'll ask who. If he says no, and asks me, I'll tell him that I think he's cute. Basically if he says yes or no, I'll still tell him.
     
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    aww im jealous too, I wish you the best, I think this is very likely to work
     
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    I should memtion that he had asked for my phone number but I don't have a phone. When I got home, I went crazy.
     
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    Did you make your first move today?
     
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    Wow you're so lucky!! One thing you can do: Kiss him in the cheek. Like a joke, you can see his reaction!! But obviously don't if your reserving your first move for the question thing.
    And never forget: he at least considers having you as boyfriend. Nobody jokes that way without liking that person!!
    Oh and does he know that ur gay? That can make him more obvious if he doesn't know the good news!
     
    #15 DemiLiHue, Dec 7, 2015
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    1. Didn't make my first move.
    2. I should tell him that I'm gay.
    3. In PE, he's on my football team!!!
    4. I can't wait to see him again!
     
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    *girly excited scream* GOOD LUCK KIDDO!!
    But how are you gonna tell him?
     
    #17 DemiLiHue, Dec 7, 2015
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    Whenever we're alone. Today, we were playing around with the turf and I threw some in his shoe and he got me back when he spilled it in my shirt. He also kept taking my beanie away from me. Oh my god, what's keeping me from telling him?!
     
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    GO FOR IT, get him now! I only wish I had had somebody in Middle School that made it worth it. Because it was udder hell for me.
    Please for the love of all that is good and holy (even though I'm not religious) ask him out. I know it can be EXTREMELY awkward, or just feel weird. That tightness in your chest, shortness of breath you may feel. It's a sign you really really like this person.
    I'm just going to assume you are out to him here, if you aren't. I strongly encourage you to do so because he has no reason to judge you.
    If you can get up the courage, if you guys are having a real talk. Try steering the conversation towards. Try the classic "Do you like anybody." Then maybe say "Well... there is one person I like..."
    I'm sorry if this isn't making much sense. I'm a hopeless romantic.
     
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    Do the question!!
    Oh you can make him know that you're gay by talking about the time you came out to someone!! O.<
     
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