"Why do you talk about that so much?" My sis ( I don't think she is my sis) She always talks about gay subject before me especially when have my mom there When we watch tv she always "oh is he gay?" " he looks gay" "I think he's gay" So if he's gay, are there any problems with you "sis"? And when she talks about that, I can't say a thing. I don't want to talk about that. What's wrong with her? Is she trying to make me crazy? Can you please stop doing that?
Sorry, I dont know if I quite understand. Are you out to your sister but not the rest of your family, is that it?
My sister knows I'm gay. I'm not actually out to her. It's because she saw some gay stuff in my laptop
What would happen if you did come out to your family? Do you think they would be accepting? What if you came out to only your sister and told her to keep it a secret for now? Do you think she would?
I don't think so. My family they are not homophobic but about accepting I'm gay would be a big problem with them. About my sister she wouldn't do that for sure
Then the only thing you can do is just deny it for now. If it was me, the next time she said something, I would act really concerned and say "is there something you want to talk about with me? Its just you've been going on about gay stuff for a long time now... are... are you gay?" Then she'd be like "NO I'M NOT GAY! You are gay because I saw that on your laptop!!!" Then I would just looked confused and laugh and say "What? hahah... OK if you dont want to come out to me yet thats fine but dont try and pretend that I am gay just to cover up your own sexuality. I'm here for you if you need me." And I would just carry that on. Total denial and total confusion when she accuses you of being gay.
