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Attracted to Best Friend

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by JebtheSheep, Dec 25, 2015.

  1. JebtheSheep

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    So yea, the title really explains it all but I do have one really big problem. I am 90% sure he is straight, but we have been best friends for like 7 years so I thought that might change something. But anyways, what do you guys think? :confused:
     
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    If you're sure he's straight, then I'm sorry, he's unavailable. Does he know that you're gay? Is he homophobic?
     
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    He knows I am gay, in fact he was the first to know. He has never showed any signs of homophobia and I am 90% sure he is straight.
     
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    Well, all I can say that it'll take time to get over him. Who knows, maybe he'll be flattered.
     
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    It's so painful to have a crush on your best friend. If he's straight, which it sounds like he is ... then he can't change, as you know. But I am all too familiar with how this feels! I have a horrible crush on my best friend in the universe. It's so painful. I try to tell myself that one day I'll find someone just as good as the person I love now.