So, this is my first 'true' post here, so bear with me if I'm incoherent. Lets start with the basics; only my two closest friends know I'm bi; one is a straight guy, and the other is a lesbian. The lesbian, let's call her 'T', convinced me to come out to Z; the straight guy. She had said "Just go ahead and tell your friends, your true friends will stay with you, as for the ones that don't, f*ck 'em. Whatever you do, just tell them before the end of the year." Now I'm contemplating telling some of my other friends, one of my friends 'R' is pretty chill and would probably celebrate it. The other one 'M' seems homophobic, but he jokes around so much that I can't tell if he's serious or not. What should I do? Should I tell R and M, or just R, or no one at all?