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Girls hitting on a gay guy!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by The Falcon, Jan 3, 2016.

  1. The Falcon

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    More and more girls are starting to hit on me. I am out to my closest friends, but not to the general public. So many girls are hitting on me. I am handsome I guess, and I am pretty smart and witty, but I don't look at girls with lust, nor I give them any sings, but they like me... I think it is only infatuation, they find in me this caring, gentle, nice guy that is also decent-looking... I don't know...

    I don't really like breaking their hearts or something...

    Did anyone had any similar experiences?
     
  2. Steve FS

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    I've had experience with that. It's awkward, but all you have to do is say that you're gay and they'll leave you alone..

    Or they'll ask you to go shopping with them and be their gay BFF.. lolol
     
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    Few girls have hit on me, but its still so awkward -_-

    Probably not the best way, but I just didn't flirt back and/or told them I didn't feel the same way :slight_smile:
     
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    You don't have to worry about breaking their hearts unless you give them false hope and spend a lot of time with them. Enjoy the flirting and take it as a compliment. Just don't date them. I had a coworker/friend who I wasn't out to confess their love for me recently and that was awful. I felt so bad breaking it to her that it was never going to happen since I'm gay.