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Can Lesbians...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by BookWriter1994, Jan 6, 2016.

  1. BookWriter1994

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    Can lesbians still find certain guys attractive? Or maybe even have a small crush on men but knows for a fact that I do not want to be with a man? Can this still happen? So confused
     
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    I've thought about that a lot too. Don't straight girls sometimes have "girl crushes" on girls though? So I think lesbians can have "guy crushes". I think maybe it's because sometimes we admire guys and, if we were the same gender as them, the way that straight girls are the same gender as people that they are not attracted too --I think that we would want to be like them. But because we are girls, and attracted to girls, it's confusing when we have like a "admiration crush" because unless we're transgender we don't actually entirely want to be like them. We're just sort of impressed by them.
     
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    I'd say so yes it's more of admiring from a far though