Hi everyone, I came here because I want your opinion. I have a girlfriend since 7 months, it's a distance relationship... but it's not the problem. Everybody knows about my orientation almost since 8 years... I've never been in a relationship with a girl who has not made his coming out. I know it can be scary to do that. At the beginning of my relationship, I thought than I will be able to deal with this situation... but I realize it's more difficult... I'm not really happy about that.. :bang: but I love her so much. I can understand she doesn't want tell that to her parents but.. she made some new friends, in my head, it's a good way to try to say she is in relationship with a girl. Nobody knows I exist in her life... while on my side all my friends know, all my family know, all my coworkers know. So I always have questions like «how are your girlfriend?, Did you enjoy your trip? When will we meet her? » One side, it's wonderful because my family, friends, care about my relationship... but the other side... I know than my girlfriend never had question like that... because I don't exist... So, if his friends organise something and she's supposed to come see me, she have to find a pretext. she is 26 and she doesn't live with her parents. I have to wait because I can't force her... meanwhile... it's hurt me. Why it's hurting me like that? mhum.. I don't know... probably because I'm not used to hide my relationship... to be the secret for someone. What can I do ? She knows it hurts me. I don't feel that she will want to talk soon... Thanks Miss5 :tears: P.S. : Sorry for my english.
