Hey I'm not sure if this is the right forum but these couple of weeks I've been questioning myself if I was straight but now I think ive comed to a conclusion that I'm gay I mean I watched straight porn 3 times without getting turned on idk if that will matter but anyways I want to see if I could find a guy maybe that will keep me less confused because I have been having some anxiety and these thoughts and confusions are always in my head even when I know I don't feel turned on by girls so right now I just wanna test myself and break out of my comfort zone since I never even kissed anyone yet >.< I've tried to be with guys they always have given me eye contact or they would smile at me from far away but they always ended up showing with a girl a couple of weeks later that sort of pissed me off but I sort of let lots of guys to since I lost all confidence in them I ignored the ones who were probably into me if I could I would just go up to the guy and ask but I'm not out yet and I am afraid to make a fool out of myself and the guy turns out to be straight lol its very idiotic I know but I need to do this to get these thoughts out of my head so can anyone give me advice on how to really know if a guy is into you? I would appreciate it if your respond thank you
There's never any real way to know someone's into you, but you don't have to stress out about it so much. It sounds like you want to start dating a guy just to confirm your questioning, but your sexuality can be fluid. If you feel the confidence to ask a guy out though, you should go for it! Just make sure that he is someone who you know won't be awful to you if he turns out to be straight or doesn't want to go out with you.
