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pros and cons of dating a curious guy

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by RyKat, Feb 7, 2016.

  1. RyKat

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    Yea so this is the first time a curious guy has wanted to actually have a relationship with me... What's the pros and cons of dating curious guys????
     
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    I did it once, even though he said he was bi, not curious (I found out the truth later).

    It was okay for a bit, but he was too paranoid about anyone finding out to enjoy it, and once it ended he pulled the whole "oh it was just a mistake, I'm not actually attracted to guys".

    Feels kinda shitty having someone just "take it back" at the end.

    I'm sure a lot of curious guys aren't, but that was just my small experience.
     
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    I'm sorry to here that and ill take this in mind if I decide to actually date him
     
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    The biggest thing is probably the issue that he might not be into guys after all and if you are emotionally very invested in the relationship it might be a hard thing for you if he ends it.
     
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    Basically what Euler said. It's like FWB in a way. Same results: someone ends up hurt.