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Second chance?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by CuriousKitty16, Feb 13, 2016.

  1. CuriousKitty16

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    I just found out that my girlfriend (of only a week) has still be in a texting/long distance relationship with the person I assumed that she had broken up with. As soon as I found out I broke up with her. She said she just didn't know how to break up with her, she's sorry, and is begging me for a second chance. She said she'll break up with her, but she has broken my trust and betrayed me.

    Do you think I should give her a second chance to redeem herself or just move on?
     
  2. confusedbubble

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    I wouldn't, once you're in a relationship she should of broke it off with her ex and broken up with her
     
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    You said already that she broke your trust. What is there to ponder?
     
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    How old are the two of you? How long have you known her? How long were they in the LDR?

    Do you love her?

    Listen to her...see if her actions match her words...
     
  5. CuriousKitty16

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    We are in our thirties. I've known her for a few weeks. I'm not sure how long they were together. I do care about her.

    She's been apologizing all day. She called me tonight and she was sobbing. She said she broke up her and doesn't want to lose me.