I feel like this fits here. I've been seeing someone for 3 months now, and things have been going great other than my sex drive; it has decreased. I am an ambivert, so there are times when I want to be alone and times when I want to be around people. I wonder if this has anything to do with sex drive and not wanting to be around my partner (meaning, I want some me time). I guess what I'm asking is if it is common for sex to decrease in relationships? He emotionally fulfills me which is why I love him so much. Don't get me wrong, I do find him sexually attractive, it's just that I don't want to have that much sex anymore. I have not spoken to him about this (yet), but I just wanted to see what you guys think first.
It is quite normal to experience heightened sex drive during the initial phases of a relationship and for that to settle down over time as the emotional factors kick in. It has been my experience that roughly 3 months is the typical timeframe for this. Assuming that you still enjoy his company and that you still want to have sex on a regular basis (though not several times a day like at the beginning ), this seems like a normal progression of the relationship.
