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Crushing on straight guys waaaaay too much.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Nordland, Mar 2, 2016.

  1. Nordland

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    It used to be that I only had a crush on one guy in my year but now the number is increasing and I think I should stop. Any tips on how to stop falling for people?
     
  2. Connorcode

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    Find someone who's not straight and kiss 'em :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    If you had a boyfriend, you would have an incentive to stop. But if you can't get a guy at the moment, talk it through with someone or write your feelings down. Understand why you might be crushing on straight guys and then, if you want, find a way to tone this down.

    I have this problem on and off all the time! :wink:
     
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    I can help with this, there is one solution which is proven to stop you crushing on guys -

    Pick up 2 forks and plunge them into your eyes.

    There's always going to be people you look at and think look absolutely stunning, it happens to straight guys too!
     
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    Why do you want to stop having crushes on straight guys? Is there a specific reason or you just don't want to? I mean it's not just because your arm is tired right?
    I don't think you could stop even if you really wanted to but I don't understand your problem. From my experience, I was the first and only guy at my school to be out but later in life discovered quite a lot of my peers were gay - including my boyfriend of 14 years. So how do you know that one of those guys isn't crushing back on you?