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Will you marry him/her?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Xvision, Mar 5, 2016.

  1. Xvision

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    Hi guys!

    I was just wondering about whether the majority or minority of gay people want to get married or not. I personally want to get married, but I find it hard. A lot of people don't believe in marriage anymore. So what are your opinions on the subject, do you want to get married? If you do, where would you want your marriage to locate? and what does your perfect marriage look like?
     
  2. whattodoii

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    I think I would want to marry, though I'm not sure.
    To be honest I wouldn't really care where or what the marriage would look like, though I would want a pretty dress(I know), the most important thing would be being with that person :slight_smile:
     
  3. Connorcode

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    I want to marry. But I think a lot of people go into marriages not knowing the other person enough or they don't try to ride out minor rough patches with their husband/wife.
    My perfect marriage would definitely be to a guy (obviously) and hopefully we will stay here on this small rock!
     
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    I'd like to get married, yes. As for my ideal marriage? Pretty much Morticia and Gomez Addams' marriage.
     
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    I definitely want to get married someday :slight_smile: I'd want it to be a small wedding (~20 people) and someplace very unique :grin:
     
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    Yes I would like to get married one day. Whether she would want to is not something that has been discussed. It's far too early for that. It's not legal here yet, so no point in bringing it up yet anyway. We'll see....
    If we do...it'd be a small wedding. Neither of us likes parties or socializing so family and select friends only.

    As for the perfect marriage? No such thing. Anyone hoping for that is going to be disappointed. Talk, laugh, love. Everything else is negotiable :wink:
     
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    No, I don't want to get married.
     
  8. LetLoveIn

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    Most definitely agree there. A lot act on the initial feelings and don't wait to see if the relationship is viable. Or you have the ones who give up over the first fight or hurdle. Both are very sad outcomes.

    I love this outlook! Certainly a good one to have and remind others of!
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    I do plan to marry someday. If it'll be to a man or woman remains unseen. Either way, the adventure of marriage is one I'd love to take.
     
  9. DemiLiHue

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    Yes!
    But after 4-5 years of dating minimum. Studies show one knows the person almost fully after 3-4 years
     
  10. Euler

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    Marriage on emotional level means nothing to me. I will probably get married to a friend - if not to a romantic partner - just to get the tax benefits.

    I do want a life long relationship of some sort where you live together and share your life. But marriage is not needed in that equation.
     
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    Nope. If i ever get married, it be will be for practical reasons
     
  12. DemiLiHue

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    I guess I'll have to go to the pride parades... If I wanna get married