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My cute weirdo friend...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by BI PANCAKE MAN, Mar 8, 2016.

  1. BI PANCAKE MAN

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    So... I am a friend of a guy (who happens to be straight... at least he says he is), and I recently came out to him. Ever since I came out to him his has been acting... weird around me. He keeps dropping hints that he wants to be more than friends. He even asked if I would date him if he was gay.-_- So I came to the internet for help (like a good 21st century american) and am wondering what you guys think. :grin:
     
  2. greatwhale

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    Well, like a good American, you would do well to take a direct approach!

    Ask him simply if he is interested in dating guys, do this during one of those weird moments you spoke of. Asking this in these words, "dating guys" is way less threatening to his identity than asking "are you gay?"

    Best of luck!

    (God, guns n'guts, that's what made America great! :grin:)