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Confessing to my straight friend...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by wannahavechange, Mar 22, 2016.

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  1. wannahavechange

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    Well... I actually use to think most gay guys who fell for their straight friends , the getting over them because they're straight part would be easy. At the end of this year when we graduate I'll confess and miss him terribly. I'll probs cry like a little kid. You know the type of crying were yoo get headaches from. He's been the most fun and caring person I've ever met. I know I can't keep these emotions harbored because It's bad. So I gotta at least try, right?
     
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    I'm going to move this over to Family, Friends and Relationships, as I think you'll get more views there. :slight_smile: It may get buried in Chit Chat by more general threads, and this seems like a question you might need support with.
     
    #2 Spartan 117, Mar 22, 2016
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    Thank you so much
     
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    Being friends with someone you have intense romantic love for can be difficult, but are you sure it's worth it to tell him? This could ruin your friendship. But I defineitly understand how painful this is. I'm sorry you're going through this...
     
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    Would it be for the best not to?
     
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    How long have you known him? Telling your feelings could help you get over your crush, but it can make things awkward. I don't think a strong friendship would have permanent damage. It really depends on the situation. Also, I wonder if you could phrase things a little more theoretically like you want to find a gay/bi guy like him.
     
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