Hi everyone! :smilewave So here's the thing....I went to my friend's house a month ago and it was the first time I saw him face to face (after two years of knowing each other) first he started seducing me then he kissed me on my lips...first I freaked out then we started making out...I was curious about kissing another guy....but things got way too worse....Now he would call me (baby) and considers me as his boyfriend :icon_sad: I'm really freaked out... But I don't wanna break his heart....what should I do???
If you don't like him back, just tell him you had a good time.. but you just wanted to experiment. If you maybe like him, tell him that you're not boyfriends.. but want to keep seeing each other and see where that goes. I'd reeeaaaaly appreciate your advice on my situation as well
You never said if you liked or disliked the kiss. Maybe you should work that out before making any hasty decisions.
Both advice here are solid. You need to figure out what you want and then effectively and openly communicate that.
Ask him (and yourself) to define this relationship. On the face of it, he seems to be overeager if he thinks one meeting and kiss is enough to call you his boyfriend. Hopefully he isn't telling others this since it was a surprise to you. You also have to be carefule even if you want to experiment that he doesn't get a wrong impression. Honesty is the best policy, even if he feels hurt at first.
first of all, Im happy youre so openminded and didnt freak out and got agressive like alot of straight guys do. Your friend is going a bit too far by immediately calling you baby. I guess he thinks youre interested in him. Just tell him you were curious, that you love him as a friend, but that youre not really comfortable with it and arent interested. It may break his heart a bit (crushes on straight guys are the worst) but you shouldnt do anything you dont want to do hope this helped
If you're gay and you like him... Why not :lol: if you are straight/ gay but don't like him, then just tell him. You could just tell him that you were just curious when you made out... Just dont make him so sad, be nice.
