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Realtion with a person twice as my age...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Vega222, Apr 23, 2016.

  1. Vega222

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    Hi,

    I'm about 25 and very inexperienced in romantic and sexual relationships.
    I just want to know about relation with someone about 50.
    I mean how is such relationships? Is it necessarily bad or risky?
    Can i enjoy such relationships?

    I just found a such man and i want to know about your experiences about such relationships.

    Can he meet my emotional needs? I don't want just sex.

    I don't know what's the right decision. I'm alone and almost never have a boyfriend before.
    I can't easily lost him, Consider my country.:confused:
     
  2. OnTheHighway

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    My fiancé is 28 and I am 45. Am I twice his age? No, but we do have an age gap. The question comes down to your maturity and if you and he can be emotionally and intellectually equal partners.

    In our case, my fiancé is well mature for his age, and maybe, when we first met, I was emotionally immature for my age. Overtime, my maturity increased as did his to where I do see our relationship in equal form, and I believe he agrees with that assessment.

    Good luck!
     
  3. Euler

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    I think that you should disclose the other circumstances of this question if you want to have accurate answers. It's not just a relationship that is tied to this person but also your future job.