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Advice on living in the closet until I'm independent.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Chromedome, May 5, 2016.

  1. Chromedome

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    I live in an overall anti gay country. Its very far behind and all the conversations, and drama and controversy countries with better gay rights had are still to come and I don't want to put myself in drama. My father is also particularly anti gay. I waste a lot of time that I could be using productivity stressing about it. Because when I do have a career and blah blah, I still won't be able to live like I want to.
     
  2. 2Sides

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    Do nothing. Simple. I'm from an Islamic background. You keep quiet and be patient.
     
  3. xavier4

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    yeah i think patience would help you in the long term..:confused::confused::confused:
     
  4. cakepiecookie

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    Focus your efforts on moving to a more accepting country.
     
  5. Closeteer

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    Keep Calm and Focus on Moving to A Homophilic Country

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