so... hehe this is complicated. my gf is planning on marriage, living together, etc. im not too thrilled with the idea she wants guns in the house, shes also depressed, and theres a fairly good chance she would use the gun for suicide. we also want kids and cant agree on how we'd raise them, i want to break up with her, but then she'll probably kill herself. :help:
How old is your girlfriend? If she is also 13, then marriage, kids, and living together is a very long time in the future for either of you. Those are not immediate priorities. Is she talking to a counselor or therapist about her depression? If it is serious, you may not be able to help her, and you should never feel guilty about breaking up (it is emotional blackmail to threaten suicide).