Okay, so one of my good friends told me that they like me yesterday. I told them that I like someone else currently, which I do. But the problem in the situation is, that I am crushing on this friend as well, but I really like the someone else in the situation. I don't know if this makes sense or not, but no matter what I do, they are going to get hurt. I can tell them that I have feelings for them as well, which would be great. But as soon as the summer comes which is soon, and I see the person that I really like a lot, I will immediatley be screwed because all of my feelings for her will come crashing into me again. What do I do?
You did the right thing by telling her that you have feelings for someone else. It wouldn't be fair to tell her you like her when you know that you care about someone else more. The truth may hurt, but it hurts a lot less than being deceived or led on. You have good instincts...trust your own judgment.
Don't hurt the person's feelings that you have feelings for. I feel like you did the right thing. I know that your friend is probably sad, but they'll probably be able to find someone else.
