So the past few semesters, I knew this guy at school who I was kinda into, but I never asked him out because I wasn't sure if he was gay or not. When we first met, he invited me out to the bar with him and two of his friends. I'm not sure of he's gay, he's quite feminine, but I don't like to base things over sterotypes and I hate gender roles. We're friends on Facebook. He graduated, but might come back to the university for graduate school, but hasn't decided yet. . I also feel like if I ask of he's gay, he'll get offended. Should I ask him out, and if so, what should I say? Thanks