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How hard was for you to get a boyfriend?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by newuser, Jun 13, 2016.

  1. newuser

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    Just to know how hard was for you to get a boyfriend, or a boyfriend you really loved.

    Share your stories, if you don't mind to do it! :slight_smile:

    PS: I never had a romantically relatinship. Infatuated at the moment
     
  2. SimonSnow

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    Ummm well my cousin who is gay got his boyfriend easily but was very lucky with his relationship. They want to get married when it's legal for their ages. He's 16.
     
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    I don't know, it has just happened. We were friends, and then it started to change.
     
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    I've been out and a year and a half, I've went through my share of dating however most didn't want to commit or I didn't. I have struggled but I've also been more focused on self improve the, my school, and friends. I'm attractive from my perspective but I'm a weird goofball, and I'm now falling hard for one of my new-found best friends but I'm also starting to see a guy which seems like a sure thing.

    So yea, the gay community is tough especially here where it's limited! Hang in there and just meet more people who are likeminded.

    Btw would you mind checking out my post in this forum?
     
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    Not hard, but then again you can't swing a dead cat without hitting a gay guy where I live.
     
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    I never considered it to be very hard. But I never really proactively looked for a boyfriend - rather I would just be going about my business and maybe hook up with someone and if things clicked mutually some kind of relationship would form.

    Todd
     
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    For some reason I liked a guy, then told him, then he told me that he liked me too! Now we have to break up on Friday. Read more on my post "First breakup..."
     
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    I really need to move out of the nw side and head to boystown..... sounds like a dream come true lol. Heading down there for my first pride fest this weekend.(!)