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How do I confront my friend about what he knows

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by dopplershift94, Jun 21, 2016.

  1. dopplershift94

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    I was at my friend's place the other night, and I mentioned one of our mutual friends (one who I use to have a crush on). He then asks "You're bisexual, aren't you?"

    I said "yeah", and he was like "It's cool, I don't mind that"
    I then asked "who told you"

    He then mentioned our mutual friend who he and him are close.

    I didn't say anything after that. But it was a few months ago that I told our mutual friend that I liked him, and he told me that he wouldn't tell anyone.

    I want to ask my other friend to see if our mutual friend told him about the crush on had on our mutual friend.

    How do I kindly confront him and ask how much he knows?
     
  2. faustian1

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    I think you should assume he knows pretty much everything.

    But you also could assume, based on what you've written, that it's not a big deal to them.

    How do you feel about more people knowing you're bisexual?