This girl, I really like her. I've known her since 3rd grade; however after 4th grade we lost touch and didn't see her again until high school. however after sophomore year she moved but we kept in touch through Facebook. it's been 3 years after high school and I finally told her how I felt. good news is that she is bi, bad news is that she just got in a relationship with a guy. when we last talk I told her if she needed anything I'd be there for her, and she told me the same. however I never gave her my phone number and I feel like it's better for her to have it because what if we stop using Facebook. I just don't want to flat out ask for her phone number, because I want to be respectful of her relationship, and I don't want it to seem like I'm trying to ruin her relationship. I just want her to see that I really want her to be in my life, even as a friend, and hell maybe she see I have good intentions. I was thinking about sending her some pictures of us in the 3rd grade, to start a conversation and say remember this? and maybe get her number that way. is this a sweet way how to do it? is this wrong? what should I do to get her number? any advice and tips are welcomed
You could send her a pic or two. Then say hey, I'm going through some old pictures, if I find some more would you like for me to text them to you? or something along those lines. She may just say send them on FB... but it's worth a shot...