So there is this guy I've been checking out on Instagram and we followed each other today. I have asked around and he is gay and he went to my school and was the year ahead of me. I am still in school but he didn't continue on. Anyways I'm not out at school and only family and very close friends know that I'm gay and I plan on keeping it that way until I graduate in a year. I want to meet him and ask him out. First of all how do you think I could figure out how to meet him and how to ask him out and secondly does it even make sense since I'm not out and he is?