We work together at a restaurant. We've talked and have seemed to get along....this person wanted me to go out with a couple others from work and her on a couple different occasions. I never went because I wasn't too interested in the two or three other people she was bringing along. I noticed that I was the only one ever saying "hi". If I didn't say anything, she'd just walk by me without saying anything and we'd go on through the shift without saying anything. I tested this last night. She never said "Hi" and never initiated a conversation. We didn't talk once. Furthermore, this seemed to come across as though I was ignoring her and created awkwardness...everytime I entered the room, there was eye contact. A couple occasions, we passed by each other without saying anything, and I'd sense her turn her to head to look at me at the last second as I passed. We both talked normally to other people at work- those that do acknowledge me and say hey. This is a weird situation to me...I thought we were at least work friends but to not be acknowledged ever says otherwise. We're both bisexual females and I'm hoping she's not like this because she thinks I'm interested in her and chasing her. I'm not. I know that she has a boyfriend and doesn't seem to be not interested. I don't think we're real compatible anyway. I've never made any moves on her. So what's likely going on? I remember a girl a couple years ago that I got along with really well at work who would always ask me why I wasn't saying "hi" to her. I initiated conversation with her daily; I suppose I just didn't always make an official greeting. I'd walk up to her and just start talking. When she asked why I never said "Hi", I smiled and responded with "You could just as easily say 'hi' to me." And she went silent, turned red and just smiled. Not sure why anyone would expect me to be the official greeter.