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Scared to date...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Alexrocks1253, Aug 8, 2016.

  1. Alexrocks1253

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    I'm scared that if I date someone, that they'll cheat on me either with the same gender as I or the same gender as them (if they're bi/poly/pan) :frowning2:
    I also think that if I come out to the individual, then they'll be worried that I'll cheat on them! I'm freaking out because I don't know if anybody will ever date me!!! :tears:
     
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    You've already had a boyfriend before so your well ahead of most..

    If they think you'll cheat because you're pan then their no good for you..

    Don't be so worried about if people cheat because it probly won't happen at 15..
     
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    Wait, why are you so afraid of being cheated on? Has this happened to you or someone close in your past? Most relationships do not end with cheating. And usually, a relationship that ends this way has been on the rocks for a while...you would likely see it coming.

    The best way is to be clear with your partner that you want complete honesty throughout the relationship. Hopefully they would be more likely to talk to you before making a stupid move behind your back.
     
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    Yes. A few of my friends have been cheated on.