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Experimenting with a straight friend????

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by tay98, Aug 24, 2016.

  1. tay98

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    Okay so i recently came out as bi to my best friend and we always talk about making out with girls and whatever. She identifies as straight but she said she's a 2 on the kinsey scale. (basically meaning she finds girls attractive and she's cool with kissing girls etc but she would never date a girl) We're very close and touchy with each other and she has mentioned twice that she wouldn't mind experimenting with me or hooking up.
    Should i go along with it? How do i know if she's being serious or if it's just a joke?
    Personally, this is something i've wanted to do for a while now but i don't want it to ruin our friendship
     
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    As long as you understand it will only be casual, then I see no harm in it. There is a risk the friendship can be harmed, but that just means you'll need to have a discussion about what you're doing first so this doesn't happen.
     
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    As long as you are confident you won't get too attached and both think it is a good idea, I would say why not ? :slight_smile: