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I identify as a lesbian, but I have feelings for a genderqueer person

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by RavenWing, Sep 1, 2016.

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  1. RavenWing

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    Recently I have started to develop feelings for a friend of mine who identifies as genderqueer and demi-pansexual. They are physically female and generally use/are okay with being called female pronouns. Is it okay if I am attracted to them (and identify as a lesbian), even if they aren't necessarily a female? :help:
     
    #1 RavenWing, Sep 1, 2016
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    If they don't mind being called a girl, and you're a lesbian, then go on ahead! Love is love, no matter what. :slight_smile:
     
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    Even if they want male pronouns occasionally as long as you are happy with it that's all that matters. I say go for it.
     
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    Babe, of course it's 'OK'. Lose the labels, embrace love <3
     
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    I am actually the most attracted to women who identify as genderqueer, but are ok with being female. It's so attractive to me because I love the male dynamic, I just don't like the male body.

    For example, I love when a woman is confident with being a woman, but wants to take on the male role, and even makes love like a man.
     
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