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Will lesbians or bisexuals reject me if I look underage?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by flyaway, Sep 6, 2016.

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  1. flyaway

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    I'm 19, 4'9 1/2" and I get mistaken for a 12 year old all the time is annoying (even if I dress mature, I've tried makeup and it helped a little bit but I'm lazy to do it everyday). I've never had a girlfriend (I always end up being rejected) and I feel like I'll die alone with no partner or like a virgin because of how I look.

    If I liked men it'd be a bit easier because I've heard that some of them like petite women with cute, innocent faces, but I don't know if that's the case of lesbians/bi women. I'm so sorry for asking this, I'll start therapy to work on my self-esteem.
     
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    I look young for my age as well (I understand the struggle!) and I have been in a few relationships with women, so it's not impossible! I'm not particularly attractive, either. If you are a decent human being, I have no doubt that you will find somebody you like, who also likes you in return.

    Even though you might feel concerned about being a virgin at 19, you are still young! Don't worry. Everything will work out : )
     
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  3. flyaway

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    Thank you so much for replying!!! My hopes have returned :slight_smile: I'll just wait what happens in the future. Hope you have a nice day :grin:
     
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    There's plenty of lesbians out there looking for girls like you! It's just a little hard to find them, considering how spread out and big the community is. Heck, I'm 18 and going through similar stuff (though everybody thinks I'm a sophomore when I'm only a college freshman). You just have to get out there and meet people!
     
    #4 EleanorHunter, Sep 8, 2016
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    19 is a bit too young for me to be dating either way, but the look alone would not be a dealbreaker if I knew their true age.

    Not to mention, I could feel taller for once :wink:
     
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    Yeah, you're right i should meet more people in the community. :icon_bigg

    ---------- Post added 11th Sep 2016 at 08:39 PM ----------
    hahahaha :eusa_clap

    it's just that i've heard some lesbians say: "if the girl i'm dating is less than X'Y" then I'm not dating her" or some insecure shit.
     
    #6 flyaway, Sep 11, 2016
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