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she said she has a crush on me...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by tay98, Sep 16, 2016.

  1. tay98

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    so i have this one friend who is also bisexual. We're close but not best friends or anything. For a while now she's been mentioning this crush but she wouldn't say who it is and now she finally told me that her crush is me. I don't like her in that way but i would still like to be friendly with her. How do continue being friends with her without things being awkward?
     
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    Be real with her. Tell her you still want to be friends but you just don't see her that way. If she's a good friend, she can respect that and your decision. She might distance herself to get her feelings through but that's normal. Let her know you're therw for her.
     
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    Just let her down easily. Be prepared that she might need to distance herself from you for quite a while. It's emotionally painful to continue a friendship with someone you have feelings for currently, but It's also easy to pick up the friendship after you've had time to move on.
     
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    Be honest. If you don't that'll just lead her on and make things inevitably worse.
     
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