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Should we break up?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by alext328, Oct 10, 2016.

  1. alext328

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    Okay so I have a girlfriend but I like someone else a lot too, and she moved an hour away and she got her phone taken away. So we never talk and recently I met this guy who I really like and I keep thinking about him and I don't know what to do bc I don't want to hurt my girlfriend but I don't really like her? Should I break up with her?
     
  2. robclem21

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    If you don't really like her then I think the obvious answer is yes you should break up.

    I know there is a good chance you will hurt her, but protecting her feelings will only lead to her being more hurt in the future. It would probably be best for both of you if you just move on.
     
  3. HuskyLover

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    If you don't like her, it's not fair towards her if you keep the relationship going. Talk to her, say how it is and break up with her, if you don't really like her.

    I'm sure she'll understand.
     
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    Yes, you should break up. If there's no chemistry, there's no relationship.