Hi :icon_bigg I did some research over the internet a while back about schemes, patterns, or "complexes" that lead to problematic matters that didn't turn out very well. I then ended up doing some critical thinking to come up with a complex of my own and thought I'd share it with anyone who is interested or suffering from the same issue. 1: Gay man sees someone that he is attracted to 2: Gay man begins to feel depressed because of the notion that he can't be with him 3: Gay man is left vulnerable; thinking about suicide; feeling emotional pain; and/or isolates himself I figure, if you know the process in which that results in thinking and feeling this way, you'll better understand it to over come them. For any of you reading this, I hope you find it the least bit useful :icon_bigg If anyone knows of anything like this that I can find over the internet, providing links would be great! You are indeed appreciated