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is it wrong to be attracted to older women?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by jenne, Nov 1, 2016.

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  1. jenne

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    hey guys! so.. i realised something about myself.. i like older women!! and when i say older i mean 10+ years.. (i'm 20)... like it wasn't difficult enough to accept that i'm gay now i have to accept that i'm attracted to older women.. i find them so hot..
    i just feel i'm so wrong because all the girls around me are attracted to guys who are also young.. that's the "normal" thing for girls my age..
    even if i was straight and had a relationship with a man who is let's say 40 years old would be a shock..
    i don't know what to do.. am i the only one?
     
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  2. Shasta

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    No it's not wrong. You can't help who fall for. Hey I currently have crush on someone who is old enough to be my mom.
     
    #2 Shasta, Nov 1, 2016
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    Why would it ever be wrong??? The heart wants what the heart wants! My bf is 13 years younger than me and we've been together for 2 years this month. His sister is 26, married to a 43 year old man, and they have a child together. This life is yours. Do what makes you happy.
     
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    Nothing wrong with being attracted to someone older than yourself. There's a 20 year age gap between my parents
     
    #4 killswitch0029, Nov 1, 2016
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    I find older men attractive when I was your age. Enjoy!
     
    #5 Lora, Nov 1, 2016
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    older women tend to have lesser 'games' and know what they want and they are good company at least to advice you on how to handle some things in life...they are confident and composed...id understand the attraction a hundred percent
     
    #6 Blinko, Nov 1, 2016
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    I don't think it's wrong at all. Being attracted to someone doesn't mean you want to be in a relationship with them. I myself have been attracted to women in their forties, but clearly I would never be in a relationship with them, not at my age at least.
     
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    I think it's normal Jenne.
     
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    Nothing wrong about it, sure you'll get the jokes with a big age difference but, oh well. Lots of older people are attracted to younger people too.
     
    #9 DAFriend, Nov 1, 2016
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