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How to ask her out?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Renegades, Nov 12, 2016.

  1. Renegades

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    So, there's this girl I'm interested in who is openly queer, and I've liked her since before we even spoke a word to each other. Now we are casual friends, and we're both involved in our school's play(she's in the cast, I'm in the crew). Tonight is the last performance, and I wanted to ask her out after last night's performance, but chickened out, so I feel like tonight should be when I try to do it. But I don't know how to do it, or what to suggest for a first date. We are both only 15, so I can't drive her anywhere, and I'm only partially out at home. What do I do?
     
  2. RavenTheRat

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    How about asking her to a movie? :slight_smile:
     
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    Two ideas
    1) keep it casual. Something like hey I think you really cute and sweet is there anyway we could go grab coffee
    2) if you're too scared try making a video with notecards and music asking her out and texting it too her (this is how I asked my current interest out )