this girl I've know since 3rd, 6 months ago i finally told her that i liked her and we were "talking". Last Sunday night, I gave her a letter and in the letter talks about how she keep making plans and blowing them off. and every time I try to be there for her, she just keeps me at arms length. I told her i understand why she acts like a fuckboy, but that also a great way to lose someone that cares about you. Plus, when I gave her the note she already was having a bad day. I would've waited to give it to her, but i didn't want her meet me for nothing. I felt so bad, I still feel bad. She skimmed the letter, she told me she'll read the rest later. She looked like she was fighting tears, so I asked if she was mad at me? She told me no, that she understood why I felt like that and that I get a reply back, said she had to go and drove off like a bat out of hell. We haven't talked since. did I lose her? what should i do? any advice or tips will help.
Maybe she just needs time to sort out her feelings about you? Plus, you said she was having a bad day... However, keeping you at a distance and always blowing off your plans together makes me think that she isn't that interested. I guess the only way to find out is: 1) Whether you get a reply or not. 2) What that reply is. 3) If you get no reply at all. That would certainly be a signal in my book that she isn't into you. At that point, I would move on. Hope this helps a little, Sebby45
