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Lesbian flirting

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Confrused013567, Feb 16, 2017.

  1. Confrused013567

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    Sort of Sikh! But how cba you identify flirting at work by a lesbian as suppose to just being polite ?
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    Frequency. I'd say that if she's constantly complimenting you, she's trying to get your attention. Also, what she's complimenting you on is a big thing, too. Your shoes? Friendly. Your delts? Flirting.
     
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    What are delts?
     
  4. Swell

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    Deltoid muscles. Shoulders.

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    I would say these are a bunch of flirting clues:

    Being around you a lot, more than necessary

    Touching, touching your arm to emphasize a point, 'accidentally' brushing your hand when she gives you something. Wanting to 'get a closer look at you ring' and grabbing your hand to do so. All big flirting signs.

    Compliments (and YES, as stated there is a difference between complimenting your shoes as opposed to your delts.) Compliments about things you own 'cool shirt'=friendly. Complimenting things about you, 'you have really pretty eyes'=flirting

    Winking

    Teasing /playfulness

    The lesbian 'eye contact' thing. Women who are attracted to another woman do this, it's a sort of intense, 'held a beat to long but not a stare' thing

    Check out her interactions with others, do they look the same as her interactions with you or different? This may help you to clarify whether there's some flirting going on!
     
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    She doesn't touch me at work

    No compliments she's the opposite

    Very subtle ... Initially picked me up on things at work that were really petty
    Gave me chcoLtes at Xmas was xox on them

    She does flirt but not just with me .. But makes references to cuddling and
    She saw me on Internet dating and then the next day make comment about a hot colleague emphasising the "she " part

    She did invite me to the beach one day ..with another colleague but that fell through

    It's so very very grey
    She does give me a little smile sometimes
    And laughs at my jokes

    We do have a lot in common which we discovered
    I was looking up sport tickets one time.. I didn't think she saw.. Unless over my shoulder cuz I was sitting next to her and the next day she was wearing a shirt with that sport on it.
    Coincidence?

    ---------- Post added 16th Feb 2017 at 08:00 PM ----------

    And often I feel like she finds reasons to talk to me but they may or may not be true
     
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    Thank you for explaining ! But you did not have to go all out of the way and make a pic!!!!


    :grin: sporty delts you got going ! :eusa_clap
     
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    Not a problem. I wish those were my muscles. Haha.
     
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    : D I dont know that is a bit to much for me !