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This has never happened to me?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by ConnectedToWall, Mar 7, 2017.

  1. ConnectedToWall

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    I have never fallen in love with my best friend. Every other lesbian that I know has said at one point they have been in love with their best friend, but it's never happened to me. I like, don't feel attraction to my friends, most of the time. If I do it's only passing.
    Has anyone else never fallen in love with a best friend before?
    Am I some freak of nature?
    I do always fall in love with my teachers though, haha.
     
  2. Creativemind

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    I think the falling in love with the best friend is a human thing, not a sexuality thing. Straight people AND gay/bi people of both genders have fallen for the best friend before.

    But on the other hand, some people just aren't attracted to their friends either. That applies to both straight and gay people, although It's more common in women (especially straight women).

    Neither is unusual nor has anything to do with sexuality.