Hi i'm not new here but i'm worried about my older brother because when he isn't with his boyfriend he is always really mad and pi**** off at me (me only for some reason) but when he is with his boyfriend he never gets mad at me or anyone. So if anyone can help with why he's like that, that would be really awesome Also I don't know weather he has a therapist but I don't have one anymore as for some reason it was school only and i'm in college.
Hi Sonic, Sounds like he is really getting you down bud. Have you asked him why he gets mad with you? And what was your relationship like growing up with your older brother?
When we were growing up we used to be best friends and nothing could separate us. Also I have asked but he won't say why.
Could it be that he gets high or drinks with his boyfriend, but he's going through an irritability withdraw or hangover when he's not with him? Being with his boyfriend could be like a drug in and of itself, and when he's not, he's returning to the scene of the crime and overwhelmed with how to deal with it all.
Update: Since the making of this post he told me and our mum that it was because of what our dad said about him behind his back and that his BF was the only person to calm him down but he isn't mad about it anymore so i'm glad that's settled.
