So I'm in high school, and I have a girlfriend. We've been dating for a few weeks, and I know we are both ready. I just don't know how to initiate it. And also like what I do with my hands. If we are being heteronormative, I'd say I take more of the "man's roles". So I know I want to be the one to kiss her. I just don't know how or where to do it. How do you kiss someone?
I wouldn't stress to much about it. It's your first time and it's probably the first time for the other person as well. Here's what I would suggest: take a walk with her. Build up to it. Start by taking her hand, or perhaps placing your hand on the small of her back as you walk. Find quiet place where you two will be alone. Just stop. Look straight into her eyes. Grab her hips, move her body closer to you, then just kiss her.
